To be or not to be –that’s the question
“To be or not to be-that’s a question”. This has always been a philosophical topic that has been debated from generation to generation. As far as I am concerned, this sentence can be divided into two aspects : one for to be , one for not to be ,the first have father understanding :who am I want to be ? How can I reach it? The second topic’s father understanding is : why am I not to be? What will I struggle for if I choose not to be ?
We all can still recall our ambition or dreams in our childhoods that have realized or not. That time we don’t know the complex meaning of To be or not to be , but we still live our lives in the two ways of this sentences. Some thoughts may be abandoned for unrealistic dreams, other things have been done still. That is what we call “To be or not to be”.
Let’s get back to the father understanding referred above .when I am in collage of junior, I know what kind person am I want to be. so in the meanwhile , I am always myself , I am so depressed for what I have mastered and acquired that I feel am so far away from my dream though it sounds so easy to realize. After that, I am aware that I have to do something to get closer to my way. I don’t want to live for nobody and nothing. Just like one of my relatives who I am always afraid of. He is. He is very smart, handsome and good at making social communication and good at making wealth. He has been loved by many people since he is a child. He once had a happy marriage. However he let every people down in spirits. He abandoned his wife, his son hates him. What’s more, this year he broke down in himself. He got a big debts. I am very when this happened who is once . So when I thought of him, I will think what people live for? What does he live for? In his life, he just doesn’t care for people who care about him even including himself. I am always wondering how could he be like this. Every time I saw him, I don’t know what to say though I like him very much when I am small. So I always tell myself, I have to know myself live in a good life, because I have witnessed the consequences of choosing other hand. Actually, if we exaggerate the result of “To be or not to be ”, I mean for example, if we choose to be, there will be a paradise or death if we choose not to be for no reason. In the time I got school, I knew that I had to make decisions to be the people that I always have in mind. That’s why I choose to become a graduate. Though people will hold different opinions for my decision, that’s because they don’t me and I am not good at explanation which is a shortcoming of my character. When the time you choose to be, there will be a lot of work following behind. And there is only one way to go on: plan it, accept it, solve it, hold on.
Just as people said life is choices. To be or not to be, whatever you choose, there is a reason, if not, you will always in the wrong road. Unfortunately many people can hardly be aware of that-that’s the question.
March 16th in 2014
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原文：http://www.cnblogs.com/SheroBlog/p/3603795.html